LHC GameMaster & Coaching Goddess
Spectacular Shaklee Coordinator
Registered Yoga Teacher
Alright! Here we are in the locker room at halftime.
Alright! Here we are in the locker room at halftime.
Half Time Exercise:
(Many thanks to Dawnelle Hyland for leading us through this exercise.)
Halftime is the chance to be honest with ourselves about how we’ve played the first half of the game. We want to create clean slate and a clear space so we can win our game and keep winning in the game of life. So...
1) Why do we post points?
2) Why do we look at results?
Results and points help us to see what our commitments are, as well as beliefs and our capabilities. They show us how we're playing our game. Once you realize, over and over, that you are NOT your results and they do not define you, then you can have an empowering relationship with results-- no matter what they are.
Results and points help us to see what our commitments are, as well as beliefs and our capabilities. They show us how we're playing our game. Once you realize, over and over, that you are NOT your results and they do not define you, then you can have an empowering relationship with results-- no matter what they are.
Think about one of your goals and how you've played the game so far. You may be outrageously excited about what you've done in the last 3 weeks, accomplishing goals you didn't think were possible, accumulating lots of points, seeing results. You are pumped up, excited and can’t wait to keep going!
Ok, so...why would we want to let go of that? Especially if we are happy with what we are achieving?
One reason is that once we start to achieve a rhythm, we create a comfort zone. Well, what if a team is on a winning streak and they only dwell on their last victory? How many times has a team seemed invincible and they get trounced by a less talented, scrappy underdog? Getting in a comfort zone, even when we're winning, can limit us and keep us from accomplishing a bigger goal.
On the other hand, you might feel like you've hardly been playing at all. You had dreams and goals around your health that you haven’t accomplished, and you already feel like a gigantic loser. Those diminishing conversations are sapping your energy right now and keeping you from taking another step forward
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Here's the homework: Grab a piece of paper and a pen.
On one side of the paper let’s look at your WINS. What are your thoughts? "Wow, I’m great," or "Wow, I’m on a winning streak!" What are the feelings you have?
On the other side we'll look at your REGRETS. What are your thoughts? "I knew I couldn't do this," "Everybody else is winning, what's wrong with me?" "I guess I'll just stay like this forever." Or, how about my personal favorite: "It's just a dumb game." Sure, go ahead and blame the game!
Why is it even important to confront this stuff?Whether we realize it or not, we drag all of these conversations into the present and future all the time. We mess with our potential as limitless, divine beings that can create anything that can be imagined.
So it's important to really decide in this moment: It's not just some silly game exercise I'm doing for Little Healthy Competition. I am deciding that the past is the past. How I have played up until now is done, gone over. I have learned some valuable lessons which I will carry forward, and leave everything else behind.
And right now, I commit to playing 100% in my game, and in my life!
Every notice how teams come roaring out of the locker room at halftime? Whether they're winning or losing, they arrive back on the field with a fresh energy. That's because the 1st half is over. It's a whole new ballgame now, baby!
You can also step into this fresh space by declaring a new start. Right now.
To help you stay on track, remember two things:
1) Any moment you hear or feel something say you're “not enough,” or you find yourself judging, comparing yourself, or experiencing regret or disappoint, catch yourself. Be present in the moment and call a halt to that conversation. Make a new choice.
2) From this new space to create, remember your results are simply neutral information. And rather then letting your results define who we are, use it as feedback.Your results do not define you. They just show how you've been playing.
I encourage you to move forward joyfully, with childlike discovery, and let this game be your vehicle for lasting transformation.







